Getting Second Dates, a Problem?

You can get lots of first dates but getting the second one seems impossible. Maybe you are trying to hard or not trying hard enough. These tips work with any age group, as our need of wanting to be with another does not change as we grow. If anything, our need to have someone to love gets stronger as we age in years and grow in understanding of who we are. So lets get started on getting you that second date.

The secret to getting that second date is to be a good first date. So we will start with how the first date went.


[1] Did you show up on time?


[2] Did you come prepared, knowing where you were taking her, how you were going to get there and where to park?


[3] Did you show up dressed in correct attire?


[4] Did you show up smelling good and looking better?


[5] Did you keep the conversation casual and on non controversial subjects?


[6] Did you compliment her?


[7] Did you walk her to her door at the end of the evening or to her vehicle if you met somewhere?


[8] Did you hold her hand and say, thank you for the lovely evening?
If you answered yes to all the questions and still didn't get a second date, maybe you forgot the most important thing to do.

Ask!


Sounds simple, I know, but one of the main reasons you do not get the second date is, you simply do not ask or you wait to long to ask. Waiting a week after the first date to ask for the second one may send the wrong signal. If you have not ask within the first 72 hours, most of us assume you did not like us enough for a second date and we mentally move on.

Even if you do not have the time in your schedule to meet again in the first week, call the other person and tell them what a great time you had with them and set a date for another meeting. As long as it isn't months away, most people will get that second date plus more.


If you answered yes to the questions, don't forget your follow through and loose out on something wonderful.

Faylee

Life Coach
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